My most dear, most kind, most precious, wish-fulfilling one,
In the morning, noon and evening please do the Thirty-five Buddhas practice if possible. This can be recited with your hands in the mudra of prostration if prostrating is difficult.
Do Vajrayogini self-initation as much as you can.
You need to have mamo trükang puja done.
Please start reading these two texts: Practicing the Five Powers at the Time of Death and How to Enjoy Death. Anyway, it is good for all of us to become familiar with this.
This is my advice at this time, I am doing prayers for you.
With much love and prayers