Dear Ani Jean,
Your dream is so precise and clear. At the time of your death, you can arrange for people to be there as if it were your birthday. They can all celebrate, jumping up and down like they do at football games, cheering and waving their arms around, celebrating your leaving the body and going to the pure realms. On that day, you can arrange for the biggest Lama Chöpa tsog in New Zealand. Outside, all the sheep and animals can participate, but without sound.
It is good to think that your death will come even before next year, today or tomorrow. This is the right, healthy attitude, and to have the energy to make every day meaningful.
Love and prayers...