Dear Linda,
Hi, I hope your family is well. I hope things are working out with all the obstacles that are happening to your family. I have checked about what can be done to help removing the obstacles for the family, and this is what I advise:
The family needs to write the Sanghata Sutra seven times between them. Also, they need to read the Golden Light Sutra six times between them. This would be very good to do to improve the situation.