My most dear Lorraine,
Please enjoy this pearl earring. You can decorate yourself as Tara.
Please enjoy this koala bear. This represents me, I to you. Sometimes you can talk to him like you are talking to me.
Please continue with a warm heart, love and compassion for everybody, even for the mosquito bugs, OK? Have faith in Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, no matter how difficult life is, especially when you experience death.