My very dear one,
This is what came out to help you:
- Mamo trükang puja, four times. If there are four months, doing this can be counted as four times. It comes out best if the Gyuto monks in San Jose do this.
- Drugchuma: fifteen times. It is best if Yangsi Rinpoche does this. It also comes out very good if Jangtse Choje (Gen Tobtob) and other monks do it.
- Four Mandala Offerings to Tara puja: three times. The students at Maitripa College can do this.