Rinpoche gave this advice about resolving complaints and dealing with interpersonal conflict at the Dharma center. Rinpoche said the real enemy and the cause of all our problems is the self-cherishing thought.
Lama Zopa Rinpoche: How a Positive Label Creates the Cause for Happiness
Lama Zopa Rinpoche sent this advice to a Dharma center which was having difficulties with the decisions and conduct of one of the people working at the center.
A student wrote to Rinpoche asking for practices for the rest of his life. Rinpoche responded with this advice.
Commentary by His Holiness the Dalai Lama on the mind training text written by Kadampa Geshe Langri Tangpa.