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The Moment of Death

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Mantra to Not Have Pain at the Time of Death
Earlier this year a nun was doing some translation work with Rinpoche when the phone rang. It was a longterm student, who was dying, and Rinpoche spent a long time reassuring the person over and over again that everything would be OK. When he finally put down the phone, Rinpoche screwed up his face in an attitude of absolute compassion and shaking his head told the nun, "He's in so much pain – even though he knows what to do he can't meditate. He has such heavy obstacles, so much suffering." Immediately Rinpoche reached for one of the books on the shelf and began dictating the following practice "to not have pain at the time of death." Rinpoche said, "I try to recite this every day."

Recite this mantra every day to not have obstacles at the time of death, like heavy pain, incontinence, heavy karmic torment, and the sickness of terrifying karmic visions so you can't meditate.

This is the name of one of the Eight Bodhisattvas: Namkha Nyingpo.

OM SHAVADE VARA BISA LINE SVAHA

[Note: The FPMT Shop offers a CD of Recitations to Alleviate Pain.]

What to Do at the Moment of Death
Rinpoche wrote this letter to a student who was nearing death.

My most dear, kindest brother,
Please look at this mantra quite often. Especially look at this mantra when you are leaving this old body. Dear one, please don’t cling to anything, and let yourself be completely free. This is the most important moment of your life.

You don’t need to be afraid at all of being born in the lower realms. I give all my merits of the past, present, and future to you, for you to have a happy journey and a happy wonderful sun-shining future, and I give big love to you. All the buddhas and bodhisattvas love you, and you are under their care.

May anyone who sees this mantra immediately be reborn in a pure land where they can become enlightened. Or may they receive a perfect human body by quickly actualizing the causal vehicle (the three principles of the path) and the result vehicle (the secret mantra Vajrayana), based on correctly devoting to and only pleasing their own holy guru.

You can also pray this way: “May I take rebirth in whatever place is most beneficial for sentient beings, no matter where it is.” To think this thought again and again is extremely good.

The other choice is to think: “May I be born in Amitabha’s blissful field, to quickly benefit all sentient beings.”

Here is Buddha’s name mantra – Protecting from the Three Lower Realms:

CHOM DÄN DÄ DE ZHIN SHEG PA DRA CHOM PA YANG DAG PAR DZOG PÄI SAN GYÄ RINCHHEN TSUG TOR CHEN LA CHHAG TSHÄL LO

By hearing this mantra, one will never be reborn in the lower realms, and one will be liberated and will be able to enlighten all sentient beings from the oceans of samsara.

Thank you.
With much love and prayers...

Five Powers to Be Practiced at the Time of Death
Rinpoche gave the following advice on the five powers to be practiced at the time of death.

[Note: This advice is now available as a booklet through the FPMT Shop.]

There are five powers to be practiced near the time of death. They are very important. That is what we need to train in now. We have to remember what they are, at least their names and the meanings. Then we have the possibility of putting them into practice.

The Power of the White Seed
The power of the white seed means to be detached from your family, your possessions, and even from your own body, by thinking, “When I am attached to these things, they cause me to be reborn in samsara, and to die and be reborn countless times. This has happened from past lives up until now, and samsara and these aggregates are only in the nature of suffering. What has kept me in samsara is this.”

By thinking in this way, try to be detached from all these things. The benefit of being detached is that, even though these things have not yet disappeared, but are still present in the room with you, already in your mind you have decided to offer them as charity to other sentient beings, or as an offering to the Triple Gem. If your mind has already decided to give all of this away, it’s very good, because once you have that plan, your mind becomes detached. When you have offered your body as charity to others, it helps you not to cling to it.

Otherwise, when your mind is attached to your body, to sense pleasures, to your present family members, and to possessions, then even though you know meditation techniques, that attachment can still arise and harm you.

The power of the white seed is very important to generate detachment. Also, making offerings or charity to others helps you collect merit. The first power, letting go of everything, is very important.

The Power of the Attitude
The power of the attitude involves making a plan. You think, “From now on, I will never allow myself to be under the control of the self-cherishing thought.” Make a strong plan like this, “I will never separate from bodhicitta even for one second, from now on, up until my death, and especially today. Until enlightenment, and especially today, I will never separate from bodhicitta.” It is very important to do this. It means you always keep your mind in the state of bodhicitta, of cherishing others.

The Power of Blaming the One
What is the power of blaming the one? It is blaming the ego, the self-cherishing thought. Think, “The reason why I have not become enlightened so far, did not achieve liberation from samsara, didn’t achieve any realizations, and the reason why I have been suffering in samsara so far is ego, this great demon ego. If I keep following this, it will continuously do me the same harm. It will never allow me to be enlightened, or to be free from samsara. It won’t allow me to have any realizations. Whatever unfavorable situations, obstacles, unpleasantness, or discomfort happens, this all comes from ego. All of this was done to me by ego.”

Look at the ego as your enemy. Keep separate from it. Keep away from the self-cherishing thought by seeing at it as your enemy. Then, any time an unfavorable or unpleasant situation occurs, you give it to the ego. You use it like a weapon, like an atomic bomb, to explode the ego. Instead of taking it on yourself, give it to the ego, and destroy the ego completely, so it becomes non-existent. Put the blame for all the problems and undesirable things that happen in day-to-day life and all the suffering in samsara from beginningless rebirths until now on the ego. Knowing that all this is caused by ego, you split from the ego. You don’t follow ego, and then there is space for the mind to be able to cherish others, and to be able to practice bodhicitta.

By having the realization of bodhicitta, one enters into the Mahayana path. Then, by realizing emptiness, all the gross and subtle defilements cease, and you achieve enlightenment. Then, you can enlighten all living beings. You can liberate countless living beings from all suffering and its causes, and bring them to enlightenment. Even before you have the realization of bodhicitta, you will feel the good heart, cherishing and benefiting others, and collect good karma or merit as vast as the sky. Whatever actions you do become virtue; they become a cause of enlightenment.

The Power of Prayer
Dedicate your merits in this way, “Due to the past, present, and future merits collected by me and the merits of the three times collected by others?buddhas, bodhisattvas, and all other sentient beings?may I never separate from bodhicitta during the time of death, during the intermediate stage, during rebirth, and at any time. May I never ever be separate from bodhicitta, and may I have the quickest realization of bodhicitta.” Pray in this way. You can do this while thinking of Lama Yeshe, who is one with Tara.

The Power of Training
When you know that the moment of death has come, lie down. Many meditators die in the meditation state while sitting, but many meditators also lie down to die. They pass away in the meditation on death while lying down. So, the power of training is to lie down on your right side in what is called the position of a lion lying down, which is the position in which the Buddha passed away. At this time you recall how the Buddha passed away in the same position. You do this because if you remember Buddha, it leaves a positive imprint on the mind, which helps the mind to become virtue. That helps to have a good rebirth. While lying in that posture, you can block your right nostril with your right finger, because the breath coming in there is the breath of attachment. Blocking it helps to not be reborn in the lower realms. However, whether you can do that or not, if you are just able to lie down in this way, spirits cannot harm you, due to this position. You can also remember the Buddha, how Buddha passed away, and lie down in this way when you go to sleep, then you won’t have interference from spirits and nightmares.

If You Are About to Die
A student asked what practice to do if he knew he were about to die.

Generally speaking, bodhicitta. That’s the safest one. But, for somebody who has good concentration, there’s meditation on emptiness. If they have realized emptiness, then anything that appears real from its own side, and appears not to be merely labeled by the mind, they are able to see as a hallucination, as false. That helps. How? Because whether you try to look at it as empty or not, when you see it as false, and understand that it is false, that makes you realize there is no reason to cling or get angry. That’s how meditation on emptiness protects the mind from delusions and from creating negative karma. You don’t die with anger or attachment, and that ’s how it helps.

But, of course, ultimately, in order not to be reborn in the lower realms, and not to be reborn at all, eventually you have to cut the root of samsara.

More advice by Lama Zopa on this topic:
Impermanence and Death: a lecture during the 6th Kopan Course, April 1974

Notes:
1. Samayavajra (skt.) or Dam Tsig Dorje (tib.) is a purification practice, a powerful method of purifying broken samaya (sacred words of honor), especially negative karmas created by disciples with their gurus and each other. The sadhana is available from the FPMT Shop.

2. His Holiness the Dalai Lama's commentary on Guru Yoga Practice is titled The Union of Bliss & Emptiness. Originally published by Snow Lion Publications, it is now out of print, but copies can be found through Amazon.com.