You need some pujas to be done quickly:

• Geshe-la needs to do chag-sum for you. It’s best if you can attend this puja.
• The Kopan nuns need to do three sessions of the Lion-face Dakini practice dispelling obstacles. Three sessions altogether can be so good; also the nuns should recite the Heart Sutra  at the beginning of each session.

It seems you have some spirit harm or black magic happening right now and this is needed.